Yesterday night, i went home for dinner...while helping out my mum in the kitchen i told her about the black cat. My brother in law say thank God 7th month have passed already or else really scary sia.
Then my mum suddenly look at me say wanting to share something with me but she knows how timid i am so she dont know if she wants to share with me.
I told her its ok la...just tell me.
She say my grandmother was back this 7th month. I ask her how she knew, she say my 3rd auntie will make coffee for my grandmother for all occasion. So this 7th month she will also make and serve her at the altar.
So there is one night, my 3rd uncle dream of my grandmother, he say grandma told him the coffee made by his wife is very bitter till very hard to swollow.

So my uncle went to ask my auntie did she put sugar in the coffee made for my grandma and she recall back and she told him, Oh, i got put but i forgot to stir. That explain why the coffee is so bitter.
But is it coincidence? i am not sure too.
That reminds me of something else too during my grandma wake. (For your info my grandma passed away two years back)
I remember during my grandmother wake, there was this butterfly that was at my grandma wake throughout. This butterfly was always flying near the coffin and the altar of my grandma.

Maybe it is coincidence but you wont believe it that when we are at Mandai crematorium, i still saw this butterfly following us.
After the cremate, we board the bus getting ready to go back and when the door close, my niece suddenly shouted out telling my sister, lao ma ma haven board yet.. we were shocked...but nothing we could do... my niece was about 2 years old then.
I don't know if she really saw my grandmother...but i believe she should be with my grandpa now taking care of each other...